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沒有想到的是，一起旅行也可以有自己的時間。 我們一直以為，帶著香火旅行，為的不是他會記得；而是我們以後想他的時候，還可以想起那個很小很小的他，有多麼喜歡跟著我們玩。那個坐不住的他、還很愛笑的他，那個......很天真好奇的他，我們會替他記得然後說給他聽，他有一個活潑的童年，可以長成了一個燦爛的人。 為了以後的他和我們，不是為了旅行裡面的愉快。因為，帶著孩子出門，就是在奔波和混亂。一次一次的，從機艙到飯店，從民宿到餐廳；從泰國到越南，然後是日本，兩個累壞的大人看著很皮的孩子，不停不停地做壞事。旅行結束到家以後，我總有從失序的生活走出來的感覺，終於又可以心平氣和了，可以好好整理自己了。 於是到關島PIC度假的時候，我很意外地知道，原來帶著孩子旅行，也可以這麼放鬆。那是我第一次體會到，旅行裡面也有了度假的成分。以及很慚愧地發現，過去的每一次旅行，是他跟著我們玩；這一次才是我們陪著他玩。 差別就在於，他不用配合我們了，他就不會無聊到開始找我們麻煩。在PIC的每一天，他醒來就迫不及待地去水上樂園，在水深三十公分的Siheky水池和水深八十公分的兒童水上動物
學會自白的女人
我經常會看著很年輕的女孩子，心裡多少有些捨不得，想到還有很長的時間，她們要對自己失望多少次，幾乎就要被打敗；不被愛了還要想念，最後終於明白眼淚只對愛她們的人有意義。 那是我不會留戀的原因，不會沉迷的原因。很多人想念年輕時候迷人的自己，是自己最好的時光；可是我總覺得青春就是愛情災難片。幾次看到電影小說中時光機器的情節：再回到幾年以前，再是那個少女時代，就可以做出不同的決定，就可以活得比較出色、成為像樣的大人。 看到這我會冷汗直流，再也不想再來一次。 青春很短可是很漫長，走來不難可是很累。眼睜睜看著一個從此離線的帳號、一個忽然單身的狀態、一個沒有自己的合照。原來，沒有得體的再見，不過就是一個人應該要離開一個人了。時間到了，怎麼還不走啊？要不要臉啊？「可是他還沒有說不要我啊，他還說我們很快樂。」曾經也有個傻女孩這樣對我說。 想念就是撕裂傷。想著這個人是怎麼冒出來的，坐在那裡看著自己而已。想起來依然很痛，沒那麼快樂過就好了，眼淚就不會掉得那麼快。 好好的一個可愛的女孩子，被風吹雨打。一個女生的成年式，是暴力美學。總得要摔壞幾次，才會成為內心強大的女人。
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